VERONICABABY.

Is it wrong to date more than one person when you are single?

Its definitely not wrong. Your single. When your dating, your trying to get to know the person before you get into a relationship with them. Your not committed to anyone. However, its always better to date one person at a time in my opinion because feelings do get involved especially the longer you date someone. “If it’s getting serious with one person it’s assumed that you wouldn’t date other people. It would be wrong dating more than one person.” And when feelings are involved its always better to communicate and be honest. Yeah, when your single you don’t have to answer to anyone but out of respect for the person your talking to its always better to let them know rather than keeping them in the dark.

Once a player always a player? Once a cheater always a cheater?

Technically I don’t think there’s much of a difference between cheaters and players. Both have one big thing in common, basically your going behind someone’s back and seeing someone else while trying to not get caught.

Cheaters, I guess you could say, are usually guys or girls that are in relationships. They basically betray their significant other by also either talking to someone else, being in a relationship with someone else, or having sexual relations with someone else. That’s basically cheating.

As for players, they can either be in a relationship or single. But usually their single. But theirs a big difference between playing and dating. A player is basically someone who leads women/men on, hence the word player, playing them. Players basically pretend to care about the person when in reality they are only interested in sex. They have no feelings involved for whoever their trying to play. And most likely players just get in and get out.

And can cheaters and players change? Well, people always say that once a cheater always a cheater or once a player always a player. But I don’t think that’s necessarily true. I think a person can change most definitely. But the question is, do they want to? When it comes to relationships, people always try to change their significant other, but that’s not the right way to go about it, nobody can force a person to change.. Only you can change yourself.

I like low-key guys.

Those guys that have that humble demeanor about him. With that “I don’t give a fuck” attitude, but without all the flashy things. None of that “I’m down for my shit” shit, because if he was really down, people would know it. He wouldn’t need to let strangers know how he handles his business, because it’s none of theirs.

If I was approached by someone and he was really polite, like “Hey, my name is so-and-so and I would really like to get to know you,” I would definitely think “Damn, this guy is fly.” Versus the typical “Aye ma, you fine. I wanna know you,” and then he would proceed to stare at you like you’re some type of meat.

I like knowing that my guy’s been through some struggles. I like it even more when he embraces those struggles and knows that they’ve only made him a stronger person and a better man. He isn’t bitter about any past relationships and doesn’t bring any of that past baggage into his future ones.

A guy who has goals and ambition. Not for nothing, if he didn’t finish his education I like seeing that he’s not sitting on his ass waiting for good luck to come to him. I like guys who make their own luck, and fight for what they know they deserve.

I like guys who give respect and earns his own. He respects his elders and he loves his mom and even if he didn’t have the perfect childhood, he still believes in giving a better one to his future family.

Those guys who give off a certain sex appeal. When you look at him, you wonder why he’s so damn attractive, because he’s not the guy crackin’ jokes across the room, or the guy showing his moves on the dance floor, or that guy with the gorgeous smile and nice clothes.

He’s just him.

Those low-key sexy guys.

I like them.

(via knotyravggirl)

Hmm.

rachellejen:

Definition(s) of ‘hype beast’ (via urbandictionary.com):
1. A Hype Beast is a kid that collect clothing, shoes, and accessories for the sole purpose of impressing others. Although the individual may not have a dime to their name they like to front like they are making far more then everybody else. Equipped with mommies credit card the Hype Beast will try his hardest to make sure he has every pair of Nike’s he saw Jay-Z wearing on 106 & Park.
2. A person who wears bright ass shoes and wears flannels new era hats stussy lrg the hundreds ten deep nike sbs vans skinny jeans levis and other fitted clothing oh yea and beanies that arent all teh way on their heads and shows there hair line

I agree with 1. 2 basically says people are not allowed to be themselves anymore because it’s always considered hype. Honestly, EVERYTHING is hype. E-v-e-r-y-t-h-i-n-g. Flannels, Vans, Nike SBs, Jordans, skinny jeans, leather jackets, clothes from XXI/Agaci, fixie bikes, skateboards, drinking alcohol/smoking pot/smoking cigarettes, iPods, iPhones, Blackberries, Macs, MAC make-up, TVs, celebrating birthdays, going to school, putting up lights for December 25th, owning anything Hello Kitty, playing video games, taking pictures with point and shoot cameras, having sex, having Facebook/Tumblr/Twitter/etc. and posting shit on it. You can’t even try to be different because then, you’re just a part of the “Fuck the hype, I’m different.” hype. (Yes, that exists.) I say fuck it. Do what you want. No matter what, you’re a hype beast. Let’s face it. I mean, I’m sure that more than half the people that drink alcohol don’t drink it because they think it’s ‘cool’ and it’ll make them look cool. They do it because it makes them feel good…I guess. If you didn’t start the trend, you’re coppin’ it from somewhere else. Coppin’ someone else’s steez will cause someone else to cop yours, eventually turning it into a hype. You being a part of it, regardless of if you were the 2nd person to do it or the last, makes you a hype beast. I’m just sayin’.

My dashboard is FILLED with people talking about hypes and what not. Why not add to it? And NO, I’m not hatin’ on anyone. My San Hoes ride fixies, my boyfriend wears flannels and skinny jeans, I wear Vans and own a Blackberry/iPod Touch/MacBook Pro/MAC make-up/hella’ Hello Kitty shit/etc. The difference? I do it ‘cause I like it. If that makes me a hype beast, fuck it. I’m a happy hype beast :)

“Do what you love and wear what you love. It shouldn’t matter to you what other’s are wearing or doing. Yes there are those trends that come along, but it’s simply inevitable. It’s part of life. I hate this whole “hypebeast” talk because I fall victim to it. When in reality I’m just doing and wearing what I love. I’m getting blamed for doing what I like doing and wearing what I like wearingg. I’m getting criticized for being myself. I wish this whole hype nonsense would just disappear. It’s really immature in my opinion.

If being a hypebeast means being yourself, I am the biggest hypebeast in the fucking world.”
(via @superduperjustin)

“Every time I turn around I hear something about you,

all my girls telling me about the bad things you do..

..let them keep talking I ain’t ever leaving, baby I believe in you.”

cjbaarde:

veronicalawrence:

Supposedly, Twitter is “over capacity.” Too many tweets.

So, I’m on tumblr. =P

it makes you wonder, “How do they make more space for more tweets? Is Twitter taking over the world?” ahh, don’t mind my stupidity.

Lol. I don’t know actually.. maybe they delete the old tweets without us knowing.

But I’ll admit, twitter is definitely getting addicting. I tweet about 50-70 times a day, haha!